One year later...

Hello!

 

This year we got our first own home! We had to look for something really big to have a chance, so now we have lots of space. We rent out one room to a german guy from nick's work and collect crap for the other rooms. There is also lots of space for visitors!

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--> our livingroom is so big we even fit broken pin ball-machines in it, we have a staircase (the black "flag" thing is a shirt hanging to dry from a hook in the ceiling - with it we can get furniture up there. the hook that is.), and a terrace on the roof!

 

In 2012 we will actually live together again (I've been away in northern Sweden for studies and work a lot this year), and I might get some real jobs, in Stockholm!! We're thinking of getting our own cat, or atleast starting to take on homeless cats again like last year. We just have to find a way to keep cats off balconies so they don't fall and get hurt/die.

Christmas was spent at home, we had two friends over and ate ham, meat balls, herring and salmon. And pumpkin pie! My sisters also spent christmas in Stockholm, so we could all meet at Katta and Gustav's place for boxing day snacking.

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--> A new baby was born in the family this year! Gustav is holding his and Katta's almost brand new son Axel. My other sister Elin is trying to keep Ines still for a second. I don't know what has happened with Nick's "american smile", it's like he can't commit 100% so he makes fun of his smile instead? The "american smile" is generally wide, bright and full of hope and belief. It is a known concept in sweden, where we generally don't smile on photos because we don't want to brag about maybe having fun, so we get jealous of americans that can show so much happiness without shame.

 

So yeah, that's all from this year! Maybe we'll update more next?

 

God fortsättning!

Christmas and Swedish food traditions

Emma and I just returned from spending Christmas up north in Älandsbro, visiting her parents and spending time with several other family members. The trip there wasn't easy. There has been an uncharacteristically large amount of snow already this winter, and trains were very delayed. We waited four hours for our train to leave Stockholm the day before Christmas eve. Many others were also delayed. The central station in Stockholm was packed.

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Once we did arrive, I got to experience -30° C weather for my first time. I got to experience -20 last year, but -30 is a whole new world of cold. We walked to buy a few groceries on Christmas eve, and after just a couple of minutes in the cold we both had frost in our eyelashes, frost on our scarves where our breath came through, and Emma had very frosty dreads.

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Anyway, Christmas got me thinking again about all the food traditions in Sweden, because Christmas may have the most special food of any time of year here. It starts with gingerbread cookies, like we usually have in the US, and a saffron bun called a Lussekatt and homemade caramels called knäck, which we don't. There is also lots of glögg, mulled wine often served with almonds and raisins, to drink throughout December as well. Next is Julmust, a type of soda which is kind of like cola but has hops and other things added to give it a unique flavour. Near Christmas time Coca-cola loses a lot of sales because many people switch to Julmust.

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Julmust isn't a Christmas specific food though, because at Easter there is an identical drink called Påskmust. The only difference is they put a different label on the bottle. Another sweet Christmas treat is a rice pudding porridge. This one comes with a tradition where an almond is placed in the pot of porridge, and if a young lady ends up with this almond in her bowl of porridge, it means she will get married within the next year. I don't know what happens if the almond is found by a man, or a woman who is already married, or a young child. Hmm.

Then is the real feast, the buffet called a julbord. This is the dinner on Christmas eve, but also one may partake in another julbord before Christmas. It seems that instead of having an office holiday party, most companies reserve a julbord at a restaurant for everyone to stuff themselves at before they all head off for the holiday (and additional excessive eating).

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Some of the foods generally found on the julbord and pictured above include a delicious mustard covered ham, tiny sausages called prinskorv, meatballs, Janssons frestelse (a casserole with potatoes and anchovies), beet salad, and lutefisk. Additionally there is usually pickled herring with various kinds of sauces, gravad lax (raw salmon cured with salt and dill), potatoes, various kinds of breads and cheeses, cabbage salads, and more. Many of these foods aren't at all specific to Christmas, but they all seem to come to the table together this time of year.

I contributed a couple of American touches to all the Swedish Christmas foods this year. I made a pumpkin pie, which was quite popular, and some eggnog. I think the eggnog was not quite as popular, which is unsurprising, but it seemed like Emma liked it.

There are more interesting traditions about food in Sweden that I've learned about over the last couple of years. For example, there's a bit of a tradition of eating pea soup and pancakes on Thursdays that I think is these days most active in the military, although Emma and I sometimes try to follow suit for our own Thursday dinner. Then there is sju sorters kakor--seven types of cakes/cookies. The idea here is that whenever one has guests over, there should be seven types of cookies or cakes served with the coffee. Furthermore, I learned also that there should be at least one of each type of cookie for each guest, plus one extra so the cookie tray doesn't look sad after everyone's gathered their treats. Each guest then must take no more than one of each cookie type, at least for the first round.

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Sara, Emma's mom, did indeed have seven types of cookies to choose from for our Christmas fika. I thankfully learned the rules beforehand and took only one of each type for my own plate.

One thing American and Swedish Christmases definitely have in common: a tremendous amount of food, much of it unhealthy, is eaten in large quantities. Yum.

finishing 2010 and getting ready for next year

I am a little confused about the number of views of this blog. You are many. In case you are all still waiting for more wedding photos I can now tell you that I have tried the obligatoriska three times, and posterous obviously hate weddings because there are no more wedding photos and I am tired if trying. I'm going to start planning a very thick photo album for our book shelf instead, and anyone who wants to look at more photos are welcome to visit us and our book shelf.

What a relieve, to move on from the wedding!

In november I travelled back to Älandsbro for another big event, Inez christening. Inez is our niece, posted earlier in a monkey suit, and her parents threw a party at my parents' house for neighbours, friends and family. We had problems getting time off our stuff in Stockholm so Nick couldn't go, but I'm glad i managed to get up there. Inez loooved the attention! With performers as parents and siblings it has probably something to do with genes.

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Prepping and posing!

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Ladies and babies.

 

 

But how are the cats doing?! The two girl-kittens and one boy-kitten are already in new homes, but the most scared little kitten-boy is still in the cat shelter. Cat shelter is where they hang out when they're waiting to be adopted and our job was to make them ready for people. They had a very bad picture of our Gnidde on the website, it was quite obvious that he was dead scared and wanting to die rather than be touched by human beings. We were mostly afraid he would get too old (very few adopt grown up cats) but the biggest problem seem to be that he is still very shy. He wasn't quite that scared when he was living here so I have some pictures of him looking like a comfortable and healthy kitten, which is now up on their website instead. It doesn't seem he will get a real home before Christmas though :( He is a very special kitten, reminds me of Ferdinand. Brita-bus, cat mom, is still with us and doesn't hate us with the same passion anymore. She's allowed into our bedroom when we are home and she's very fond of Nick's side of the bed and his slippers. And his feet. Everything is too scary with us (or maybe me, i try to pet her and stuff, horrible), she doesn't want to get close, unless it's Nick's feet hanging out from the couch. No problems walking by then to have a little sniff!

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Looking at all the snow and stupid cars at the parking lot. All is well when you get to lay with your brother in a too small basket. But when new people are coming to visit the people of the house, the best place to hide is apparently in the shower (because cats love water, or wait..?).

 

On thursday night we're leaving again for Älandsbro, we're taking the train which could be horrible as the last few years have shown that the train company is not used to snow. There are many stories of people being stuck in a cold and dark train for hours, I don't want to be part of that. I'm bringing wooly stuff and hot cocoa! We're also bringing the skiis, but that's mainly for the luxury of just jumping on the skiis right outside the house and then ski in the forest. Woho! Nick is totally hooked, and just like me he has no idea what he's doing with the cross country skiis which just makes it even more fun. We're looking forward to eating julskinka and petting a cat that actually likes us. :)

 

Merry Christmas och God Jul!

//Emma

communication problems and what's up

i saw where the kittens were running and started yelling "stäng dörrn! stäng dörrn! stäng dörrn!" to nick. he just stood there and looked at the door when i came running after the kittens to scare them out of the bedroom (which luckily still works, we keep everything we care about in there, destructive little creatures). "lingon what?" he asked. apparently he hasn't learned one of the basic swedish phrases pronounced with my dialect. if he had known, he would have closed the door so the kittens wouldn't get in. our lives are so filled with action now.

i have a TON of pictures to upload, kittens and christening of our niece, but i have also started school again and is supposed to learn chemistry. so we'll have to wait with pictures for a while.

we still haven't decided if we're celebrating thanksgiving or not, it's not a holiday here and nick's work is throwing a HUGE party on friday so we're already kind of busy. i would like to celebrate Real American Thanksgiving some time, nick tells me it's like a swedish christmas - lots of food and gathering of friends and family. We're doing that for christmas this year, and in sweden you're not really allowed to have too much fun, so...

first snow, kittens and a new hair style

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Nick wished for snow on his birthday but I don't think he could have gotten his gift from earth earlier than today though. It's not so common to get the first snow in october down here! It's been quite cold, below freezing, a few nights in a row but not enough so that I think we get to keep this snow for very long. We are getting skis this weekend though so we will be ready for more winter.

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Last week we got four kittens and a cat mom! We're supposed to socialise with them, making especially the kittens ready for their own human families in about six weeks when they will be old enough for adopting. They're "easy", since they're curious and when they're being shy you can trick them with holding a string or something in front of them to focus on so they forget that they're scared. Or just give them food and pet them while they eat. Hehe. The grey kitten is the biggest and always first in line for everything, including cuddles, so we like her the most. Mom is mostly in the book shelf. They all started out looking at us from behind the TV and a bulletin board we haven't hung up on the wall yet. They were laying on each other to fit in there, but eventually the mom got tired of the kittens and jumped up on the highest book shelf she could find. She used to just stare with hate at us, big pissed off kitty eyes... But now she can sleep by the window even when we're in the room so i guess that's progress. She will need a LOT of socialising time. And we take care of the litter box twice a day. Please grow up soon kittens, you stink. They got one piece of our old couch which was already kind of broken, to use as a climbing, fighting, sleeping and clawing center. That was a very good idea! They also kind of got our curtains actually, without even having to ask us. After we took away the bulletin board from them all the cats have started to jog and/or galop around the room (and the rest of the apartment, i found one of my shoes in the living room this morning) more, finding their own favourite sleeping spots. The grey one even jumped out of her shelf (the book shelf is used as an apartment building) just to lay in my lap for cuddling and purring today!

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And I cut off some dreads for their third year anniversary. Then nick used his clippers on my newly exposed scalp, but i think he'll have to do it some more. I want it shorter! Some of the hairs really miss their old dreads and want to grow into one, it looks like i have square swirls or something on the top of my head... Like a checkers board without the colours. Difficult to describe but it looks weird and I hope it will look less weird if it's shorter. I like my new bangs though (coming from pulling out lots of hair from my scalp while un-teasing three dreads), and i kept my favourite dread close to the face! The saved ones are actually the ugliest ones, but they were in the best place for being able to have a pony tail. It is sooooo nice getting my hair wet and it's all dry in one day! And i can fit hats on my head now that winter is coming.

 

Need to call the cat people and ask for more litter today.

 

//Emma

bilder!

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en tur till seattle med mjukglasspaus och tandemcykling på kvällen. vi såg nicks cykelkompis jobys lägenhet på långt håll tack vare alla cyklar som hängde i fönstren. vi mötte jared inför en gruppcykling som vi snabbt hamnade långsamt efter tack vare tandemcykeln men passade på att cykla längs med värsta fina stranden istället som jag inte fick fast på bild men ändå. cykelgruppen mötte vi upp igen på pub där man firade 9/11 med en tävling i att äta "freedom fries" (eftersom pommes frites heter french fries här).

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i buckley, nick är kompis med wilma och postorderkycklingarna frodas.

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smarrig frukost och senare glass på vägen till halvön! färjan över sundet och andra sidan, fortfarande inte halvön tydligen där vi handlade lite lunch och spanade på alla tillbehör som finns till äpplen. man kan både köpa nyttigt och väldigt onyttigt i affärerna, upp till en själv. efter många mils körning stannade vi till vid en lokal mataffär där en lös hund skrämde livet ur mig men som bara ville äta av nicks torkade kött. inne i butiken gick en katt omkring och mös. vi kom fram sent till stranden och gick lite grann, när man fotar inser man att man står mitt i ett fuktigt moln... vår lilla stuga hörde till ett B&B som gav frukosten inplastad i kylskåpet (inplastade croissanter! man kan inte vara finsmakare här), själva huvudbyggnaden en himla fin entré tyckte jag och stugan fick precis plats med dubbelsäng och minikyl...